For The Ladies - July 15, 2011
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Are You Thick or Fat?
OK before we get started let me kick things off with a disclaimer. I'm not about to bash fat women in this article.That's not the purpose of this article. So whether you're a little chubby or fat as fuck, and you're reading this, don't worry. The purpose of this article is two things. 1.) Define the words "fat" and "thick", and 2.) to be able to tell the difference between the two.
It sounds simple enough right? Well it's not. Look at the picture above this paragraph. Would you say she's thick? According to the picture she is, but her stomach, arm, and the wideness of her neck are telling me a different story. There are thousands of women who are overweight, and are severely in denial about it. There are a few reasons that can be the cause of this delusional thinking, but we'll get into those later. For now let's properly define the two words first, and then go from there.
If you collected check marks from both sides, then it's likely you're in that gray area. You're borderline thick/fat. You're only a Pringle and/or Frito away from tipping the scales. If this is you, then you need to get in the gym, and start eating right now before it gets out of hand. Don't say I didn't warn you.
So now we know the difference between the words fat and thick. They're easy to define and categorize, so why are there so many women that think they're thick when they're really just fat? There's a couple of reasons for this.
Reason #1: Use To Be Thick.
Alot of women use to be thick, they gain a little weight, and got in that gray area we talked about. They realized they've gained a little weight, but they don't think much of it.Then they gain more weight, and crossover into the fat area.Unfortunately, what usually happens from here is they crossover into fat territory, but their mind remains in the thick territory. A lot of times, their minds never even makes it to the gray area. No matter how big she gets her brain is still telling her she's thick. This is why you have 250 lbs fat women trying to wear what the thick women are wearing. It's because their brains have yet to tell them that she's not in that place any more. When she looks in the mirror, she doesn't see what's really there. She sees herself 80 lbs ago when she was considered thick.
Reason #2: Men Lie
The funny thing about women who think they're thick, and really are fat is that some of them didn't make it up in their own heads. They've been told that from a nigga and believed it.
The Thick/Fat chart already pointed out how thick women are complemented by men and women on their shape, and fat women are only complimented by men. This is because the men are only talking about the ass, and women are looking at the whole picture. You see when a man says "I'll still fuck" That usually means "face down, ass up" fucking. So yeah, a man will tell a bitch she's thick, and yes she'll believe it too. Women on the other hand don't do that. If they compliment a female's shape, it's because she actually has a nice shape.
Reason: #3: Recently crossed over from grey area/ waist smaller than hips.
A chick that has just recently crossed over into fat territory from the gray area doesn't see the truth. The still look in the mirror and see a waist that significantly smaller than their hips. So they think their still thick. Men also will see this and call them thick, because they're looking at their ass without noticing her arms, stomach, or double-barreled chin.
The problem with women in this area is that it usually gets a hell of a lot worst before it gets better. Right now, they see their hip to waist ratio, and the fact that niggas still like their ass, and think everything's cool. So instead of losing 10 to 15 lbs right away, they continue to gain weight not seeing a problem. Before they know it, they've gained 40 lbs and they're boyfriend has finally built up the courage to tell them that they've put on a "couple of pounds"
Now instead of nipping it in the bud, she has 60 lbs to lose and her confidence is shot because she's been lied to for the past 40 lbs about how "thick" she is.
So How Do We Fix This?
The only thing to correct this problem is the truth. Stop lying to yourself, and men stop lying to these women. Once we start telling these women the truth, they'll know it. If you like fat women that's cool, but don't call her thick. You're only making it worse. If you don't know if you're fat or thick you need to go back and look at the Thick Vs. Fat chart, because looking in the mirror and telling yourself you're thick, when you're 5'3 and 250 lbs isn't going to solve anything. - N.F.
P.S.: Shorter women beware. It doesn't take long for you to go from thick to fat, because of your height.
Note From N.F.: If you've missed any article in the Assology series use these links.
Backside 101: A Study of Assology
Backside 101: Quiz
Backside 102: The 5 points of Ass-trology
Backside 102: Quiz